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How I achieved orgasms. Many multiple orgasmsOMG did I do that???Cum again? |
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So I was thinking the other day. (When I say that in real life all my friends and family usually say "oh NO" ) Anyway, I thought back to how was I so "experience" deprived sexually when I was engaging in sex. I was intelligent and knew all there was physically, medically about sex but was not having nor had never had fulfilling sex. I was an average girl. I got married at 16 to the boy next door type. He was in the military so we moved around a lot but all in all it was an everyday "normal" existence as a neglected, unappreciated woman. I had three children by the time I was 25 but I had never experienced an Orgasm. In truth I didn't even know how to achieve one, even through masturbation. My body was a temple but it was evidentially one I had not ventured to know very well or experiment with. I engaged in sex with my husband very conservatively at his convenience and had children. Wasn't that all there was to it? I had heard about Orgasm and read about them and I WAS having sex and NOT having them so I figured somewhere in the back of my head I must be frigid. I was doomed to never experience an orgasm because I thought I couldn't have them. Then came Rick a guy who was very attentive and appreciated my unique individual personality. After several months of learning to like one another, we became lovers. Of course I was still married. I figured the only way to keep this guy in my life was to have sex. I had never before really enjoyed or desired sex, so for me it still seemed a 'man thing'. BOY howdy was I wrong. From the first time we had sex, he refused to let me just satisfy him and leave that as good enough. He explored my body like It had never been explored before. With experience I grew confident enough to explore him as well. He even encouraged it, laughing endearingly at my being so naive even though 26 yrs old and having 3 children. With his help and openness I achieved orgasms. Many multiple orgasms. Then we became emotionally involved. He was the second love of my life. I had to end it after a few short significant, meaningful months. I at that point knew how to at least masturbate to orgasm. I ended it because of my obligation to honor the commitment I had made to my family. It would not have been right for me to think only of myself after I had made such a commitment and given birth to 3 humans that would depend on my character for their future. So step ahead 12 years. Yes that's 12 years by then I was 38. I had separated from husband but working full time and in college full time trying to rebuild our relationship under new terms after growth. I met a man at work that persistently pursued me. I was straight forward with him. I told him I had penned that dog up long ago. He did not need to come sniffing around the fence trying to get her out if he had no intention of walking and maintaining her once out. He attentively and with great passion persisted for close to a year. So one night we were in his office talking. he got up and started kissing me. One thing led to another and next thing I know he was completely naked and I partially. I jokingly ask "wow Do you have to get ALL naked like that?" In truth I doubt I had ever seen a grown man fully naked standing there in all his pride. I know I was blushing I could feel it. He just confidentially told me "yes and you do too." While helping me out of the rest of my clothes. He started at my head and worked down to my toes and back up. He was good strong and long. Eventually I had an orgasm but not just ANY orgasm. He was rubbing and moving things and all the sudden we were both wet. Soaking wet. I pushed him back and looked down at the small puddle I had left on the desk top and running down the side. I was stricken terrified. I said "OMG DID I DO THAT?" he smiled up so proud and said "yes". I literally started crying. "OMG I am not going to do that again, I'm sorry" I was moving to stop and he wouldn't let me up. I thought I had peed on us both.. He told me it was not Pee and to prove his point immediately went down on me. He was chuckling "aw hunny its ok it is normal for some women when they have orgasms." I repeated "well maybe so but I am not going to do that again" At that moment he raised his face from my pussy all wet and smiling snuggled up between my thighs entering me as he did saying "OH yes you will over and over again you will CUM AGAIN" and I did too, each and every time I had sex from that moment on. Why have sex and not. Even though I started real late in life it has been an extraordinary, wonderful, pleasurable enjoyable hedonistic journey into my own sexuality. Some of which I will l share with you and want to hear of your journey. ~ROSE~ The End |
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