Slow Hands

By Irish Eyes

Most people want everything fast. We want fast food. We want to drive fast. We want to get everything we want fast!! But there is definitely a time and place for slow! Taking your time. Savoring each moment. Enjoying the tantalizing joys of slow, sensual sex!!

I met a new man; I'll call him John. We had chatted for quite a while on-line and we looked forward to meeting. I loved it that he was smart, articulate and seemed to understand a lot about me before even meeting me.

We arranged to meet at my home. My son was going to be home for a while, but his father was picking him up early in the evening. I planned for John to arrive after my son left. He wanted me to meet him at the door naked! Or in a robe only. I said I'd have to see if I had a robe. LOL. It would be a surprise when he got here. Well, unfortunately, although my son left on time, my roommate was staying in for the evening and I didn't think she would want to see me naked (we certainly don't have that kind of arrangement!). When he called me on the way, I told him I was going to have to have on clothes to meet him at the front door, but there are other doors!

I made up a little snack plate (neither of us wanted a heavy dinner) of cheese, crackers, fruit, olives to enjoy before, during, or after our playtime. As I met John at the door, with a dress on, but no panties, we kissed upon meeting. I led him into my bedroom. We managed to get naked in about 2-3 minutes!! And that was the only thing we did quickly!

John was amazing at giving me slow, sensual pleasure. We kissed, we snuggled, we explored with out hands, all very calmly and smoothly. We had never met before this evening, but we fell into a very comfortable enjoyment of each other's body. He said that I had a nice calm energy. Together our energy became even more erotic than I could have imagined.

Our non-sexual (well, actually, non-genital- since it was all sex!!!) touching lead to more erotic touching. His hands and mouth played with my body. He spooned my back and I felt his erection slipping between my legs, brushing my pussy gently, giving my ass a tender glancing touch. I was getting very hot!! He turned me over onto my belly and filled my vagina with his hard cock. My legs were pressed together making me feel tighter around his cock. His cock slowly, very slowly moved in me, giving wonderful pressure to my G-spot. My mind went to another level, imagining this as a submissive position, one in which I can't move, just enjoy!! Since I have been exploring the idea of being submissive in role playing, this slow, but insistent fucking was playing with my head in a new way. I felt John to be Dominant to me, even though there was no intimation of punishment. My mind (the center of all sex) put myself into the sub role and I loved it!!! My body exploded into my first orgasm.

As I came down from the orgasm, John enveloped me in his arms, kissing and gently touching me. I told him I was going to need to leave for a moment to go to the bathroom, but he convinced me (with an assertive tone) to stay for a while longer. His touching became more assertive as well and he drove me to another orgasm and we fell back into a soft embrace.

Just then, I got a phone call from my son asking me to put his friend's skate board on the front step so he could pick it up. I told John I needed to do this. He said okay, but he had instructions first. I was to cover him with a light blanket and he would close his eyes. I was to come back, take off the dress again, uncover his nakedness, and start licking and sucking his cock without speaking. I raced to the front door and raced back. And did exactly as I had been told!! The idea of letting go of control to this man excited me terribly.

I licked and sucked his cock, playing with it, sliding my tongue around the tip, around the corona, down one side and up the other, licking his balls. Learning what aroused him, what he loved best. His cock was too big for me to get it all in my mouth, but I had a wonderful time exploring it.

Occasionally, we would take a break and eat a little snack. I ate strawberries and olives, sensually, with eye contact. There are ways to eat food, slowly, sensually, that can actually arouse your partner. Once before, I've eaten an ice cream cone at my partner, slow sexy licks of the ice cream leading his mind to imagine that I am licking his cock while we sit calmly (at least to outward appearances) in an ice cream shop. There is a whole scene in the movie, Tom Jones, based on the book by Henry Fielding, involving two characters sensually eating food while creating lust and arousal without speaking. It's all about creating the environment for the mind to play in.

Whenever we rested together we stayed entwined with arms and legs. Always touching, kissing, gently exploring. Keeping me on the edge of orgasm over and over again (although I probably actually had 4-5 orgasms before I lost count!!) We moved to another position and another, alternating between slow, languid touching and movements and more insistent, deep fucking. I rode on top of him slowly, sensually, until I was exhausted, using my vaginal muscles to pull him further into me. I felt his cock touching my cervix, filling me completely. OMG!!! I felt his energy combining with mine, creating a new level of intimacy and connection. I gave him a massage, deeply massaging his back and gluteal muscles while sitting astride him, naked, of course!! He moved me back to a submissive position- front entry with my legs pinned between his legs after his cock entered me. Amazing what that does to my head!! The more I embraced the submissive role, the more he took on a Dominant role. We had no restraints, punishment or pain; all the roles were in our heads!!

When he finally came (on my belly at the time), we were both so sated, so peaceful, so amazingly calm with the wonder of slow sex. If I hadn't had to get up and work the next morning, we would probably have continued all night long. I have a feeling we will be doing this again soon!! There is definitely something most erotic about slow hands, and mouths, and all the things our bodies can do together. --

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